We chose to use "tummy mommy" because...well, because.
HH asked Boo this morning if he thought about his tummy mommy on Mother's Day.
"No - I don't even know her. I love my mom."
It simultaneously makes me smile and break my heart.
Where ever you are, whoever you are - the woman who grew my son in her body, then suffered the breakage of giving him up - Happy Mothers' Day.
You will be happy to know that he is well. I am doing my best.
I promise you one day we will look for you. And if you cannot see him - for whatever reason - I will understand, if Boo won't.